cxl/port: Unify endpoint and switch port lookup

cxl/port: Unify endpoint and switch port lookup

In support of generic CXL protocol error handling across various 'struct
cxl_port' types, update find_cxl_port_by_uport() to retrieve endpoint CXL
port companions from endpoint PCIe device instances.

The end result is that upstream switch ports and endpoint ports can share
error handling and eventually delete the misplaced cxl_error_handlers from
the cxl_pci class driver.

Reviewed-by: Terry Bowman <terry.bowman@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Tested-by: Terry Bowman <terry.bowman@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260131000403.2135324-10-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>