MAJOR: tcp: remove the specific I/O callbacks for TCP connection probes

MAJOR: tcp: remove the specific I/O callbacks for TCP connection probes

Use a single tcp_connect_probe() instead of tcp_connect_write() and
tcp_connect_read(). We call this one only when no data layer function
have been processed, so this is a fallback to test for completion of
a connection attempt.

With this done, we don't have the need for any direct I/O callback
anymore.

The function still relies on ->write() to wake the stream interface up,
so it's not finished.