bcachefs: btree key cache locking improvements

bcachefs: btree key cache locking improvements

The btree key cache mutex was becoming a significant bottleneck - it was
mainly used to protect the lists of dirty, clean and freed cached keys.

This patch eliminates the dirty and clean lists - instead, when we need
to scan for keys to drop from the cache we iterate over the rhashtable,
and thus we're able to remove most uses of that lock.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>