i3c: mipi-i3c-hci: Add DMA ring abort quirk for Intel controllers

i3c: mipi-i3c-hci: Add DMA ring abort quirk for Intel controllers

DMA rings can be aborted either per-ring via RING_CONTROL or globally
via HC_CONTROL_ABORT. The driver currently relies on the per-ring
mechanism.

Some Intel I3C HCI controllers require HC_CONTROL_ABORT to be asserted
before a DMA ring abort is effective.  This behavior is non-standard.
Introduce a controller quirk to select the required abort method and
enable it for Intel LPSS I3C controllers.

Signed-off-by: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Frank Li <Frank.Li@nxp.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260603090754.16252-12-adrian.hunter@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Alexandre Belloni <alexandre.belloni@bootlin.com>