ctdb-recovery: Don't trust nodemap obtained from local node

ctdb-recovery: Don't trust nodemap obtained from local node

It's possible to have a node stopped, but recovery master not yet
updated flags on the local ctdb daemon when recovery is started.  So do
not trust the list of active nodes obtained from the local node.  Query
the connected nodes to calculate the list of active nodes.

BUG: https://bugzilla.samba.org/show_bug.cgi?id=14294

Signed-off-by: Amitay Isaacs <amitay@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Martin Schwenke <martin@meltin.net>
(cherry picked from commit c6a0ff1bed0265e44fd6135d16bfc41919fe5bf5)