dax/cxl, hmem: Initialize hmem early and defer dax_cxl binding

dax/cxl, hmem: Initialize hmem early and defer dax_cxl binding

Move hmem/ earlier in the dax Makefile so that hmem_init() runs before
dax_cxl.

In addition, defer registration of the dax_cxl driver to a workqueue
instead of using module_cxl_driver(). This ensures that dax_hmem has
an opportunity to initialize and register its deferred callback and make
ownership decisions before dax_cxl begins probing and claiming Soft
Reserved ranges.

Mark the dax_cxl driver as PROBE_PREFER_ASYNCHRONOUS so its probe runs
out of line from other synchronous probing avoiding ordering
dependencies while coordinating ownership decisions with dax_hmem.

Signed-off-by: Smita Koralahalli <Smita.KoralahalliChannabasappa@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Tested-by: Tomasz Wolski <tomasz.wolski@fujitsu.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260322195343.206900-6-Smita.KoralahalliChannabasappa@amd.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>