MINOR: pattern: split pat_ref_set()

MINOR: pattern: split pat_ref_set()

split pat_ref_set() function in 2 distinct functions. Indeed, since
0844bed7d3 ("MEDIUM: map/acl: Improve pat_ref_set() efficiency (for
"set-map", "add-acl" action perfs)"), pat_ref_set() prototype was updated
to include an extra <elt> argument. But the logic behind is not explicit
because the function will not only try to set <elt>, but also its
duplicate (unlike pat_ref_set_elt() which only tries to update <elt>).

Thus, to make it clearer and better distinguish between the key-based
lookup version and the elt-based one, restotre pat_ref_set() previous
prototype and add a dedicated pat_ref_set_elt_duplicate() that takes
<elt> as argument and tries to update <elt> and all duplicates.