introduce deferred lambdas

introduce deferred lambdas

The coercions system allows us to add in lambdas as arguments
to Core and ORM elements without changing them at all.   By allowing
the lambda to produce a deterministic cache key where we can also
cheat and yank out literal parameters means we can move towards
having 90% of "baked" functionality in a clearer way right in
Core / ORM.

As a second step, we can have whole statements inside the lambda,
and can then add generation with __add__(), so then we have
100% of "baked" functionality with full support of ad-hoc
literal values.

Adds some more short_selects tests for the moment for comparison.

Other tweaks inside cache key generation as we're trying to
approach a certain level of performance such that we can
remove the use of "baked" from the loader strategies.

As we have not yet closed #4639, however the caching feature
has been fully integrated as of
b0cfa7379cf8513a821a3dbe3028c4965d9f85bd, we will also
add complete caching documentation here and close that issue
as well.

Closes: #4639
Fixes: #5380
Change-Id: If91f61527236fd4d7ae3cad1f24c38be921c90ba