mptcp: pm: in-kernel: rename 'subflows_max' to 'limit_extra_subflows'

mptcp: pm: in-kernel: rename 'subflows_max' to 'limit_extra_subflows'

A few variables linked to the in-kernel Path-Manager are confusing, and
it would help current and future developers, to clarify them.

One of them is 'subflows_max', which in fact represents the limit of
extra subflows: the limit set via 'ip mptcp limit subflows X' for
example. It is not linked to the maximum number of created / possible
subflows.

While at it, add an additional name for the corresponding variable in
MPTCP INFO: mptcpi_limit_extra_subflows. Not to break the current uAPI,
the new name is added as a 'define' pointing to the former name. This
will then also help userspace devs.

No functional changes intended.

Reviewed-by: Geliang Tang <geliang@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250925-net-next-mptcp-c-flag-laminar-v1-6-ad126cc47c6b@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>