net: avoid extra access to sk->sk_wmem_alloc in sock_wfree()

net: avoid extra access to sk->sk_wmem_alloc in sock_wfree()

UDP TX packets destructor is sock_wfree().

It suffers from a cache line bouncing in sock_def_write_space_wfree().

Instead of reading sk->sk_wmem_alloc after we just did an atomic RMW
on it, use __refcount_sub_and_test() to get the old value for free,
and pass the new value to sock_def_write_space_wfree().

Add __sock_writeable() helper.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251017133712.2842665-1-edumazet@google.com
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>