bpf: Convert bpf_selem_unlink to failable

bpf: Convert bpf_selem_unlink to failable

To prepare changing both bpf_local_storage_map_bucket::lock and
bpf_local_storage::lock to rqspinlock, convert bpf_selem_unlink() to
failable. It still always succeeds and returns 0 until the change
happens. No functional change.

Open code bpf_selem_unlink_storage() in the only caller,
bpf_selem_unlink(), since unlink_map and unlink_storage must be done
together after all the necessary locks are acquired.

For bpf_local_storage_map_free(), ignore the return from
bpf_selem_unlink() for now. A later patch will allow it to unlink selems
even when failing to acquire locks.

Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Amery Hung <ameryhung@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260205222916.1788211-5-ameryhung@gmail.com