Change DB.exec() rowMode default from 'stmt' to 'array', per /chat discussion. Add...

Change DB.exec() rowMode default from 'stmt' to 'array', per /chat discussion. Add DB.exec() rowMode option for fetching a specific column by name. Add result column names to worker1 exec() callback interface, as there's otherwise no way to get that info from a worker.

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