cleanups, bugfixes, more verbose logs

cleanups, bugfixes, more verbose logs

Fixed up the assert_*_ok funcs some (more work remains)

Changed config so it reads either /etc/torrc or the -f arg, never both

Finally tracked down a nasty bug with our use of tls:
  It turns out that if you ask SSL_read() for no more than n bytes, it
  will read the entire record from the network (and maybe part of the next
  record, I'm not sure), give you n bytes of it, and keep the remaining
  bytes internally. This is fine, except our poll-for-read looks at the
  network, and there are no bytes pending on the network, so we never know
  to ask SSL_read() for more bytes. Currently I've hacked it so if we ask
  for n bytes and it returns n bytes, then it reads again right then. This
  will interact poorly with our rate limiting; we need a cleaner solution.

svn:r481