mctp: Use output netdev to allocate skb headroom

mctp: Use output netdev to allocate skb headroom

[ Upstream commit 4a9dda1c1da65beee994f0977a56a9a21c5db2a7 ]

Previously the skb was allocated with headroom MCTP_HEADER_MAXLEN,
but that isn't sufficient if we are using devs that are not MCTP
specific.

This also adds a check that the smctp_halen provided to sendmsg for
extended addressing is the correct size for the netdev.

Fixes: 833ef3b91de6 ("mctp: Populate socket implementation")
Reported-by: Matthew Rinaldi <mjrinal@g.clemson.edu>
Signed-off-by: Matt Johnston <matt@codeconstruct.com.au>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>