- starting to groom the branch for its inclusion

- starting to groom the branch for its inclusion
- one-to-many relationships now maintain a list of positive
parent-child associations within the flush, preventing
previous parents marked as deleted from cascading a
delete or NULL foreign key set on those child objects,
despite the end-user not removing the child from the old
association. [ticket:1764]
- re-established Preprocess as unique on their arguments,
as they were definitely duped in inheritance scenarios
- added a "memo" feature to UOWTransaction which represents the usual
pattern of using the .attributes collection
- added the test case from [ticket:1081] into perf/