Introduce a new virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags public API

Introduce a new virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags public API

The current virDomainAttachDevice API can be (ab)used to change
the media of an existing CDROM/Floppy device. Going forward there
will be more devices that can be configured on the fly and overloading
virDomainAttachDevice for this is not too pleasant. This patch adds
a new virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags() explicitly just for modifying
existing devices.

* include/libvirt/libvirt.h.in: Add virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags
* src/driver.h: Internal API for virDomainUpdateDeviceFlags
* src/libvirt.c, src/libvirt_public.syms: Glue public API to
  driver API
* src/esx/esx_driver.c, src/lxc/lxc_driver.c, src/opennebula/one_driver.c,
  src/openvz/openvz_driver.c, src/phyp/phyp_driver.c, src/qemu/qemu_driver.c,
  src/remote/remote_driver.c, src/test/test_driver.c, src/uml/uml_driver.c,
  src/vbox/vbox_tmpl.c, src/xen/xen_driver.c, src/xenapi/xenapi_driver.c: Add
  stubs for new driver entry point