selftests: rds: Add ROCE support to run.sh

selftests: rds: Add ROCE support to run.sh

This patch adds support for testing rds rdma over ROCE.  A new
-r flag is added to config.sh which enables the required kernel
configs for rdma.  We also add a -T flag to run.sh, which takes
a transport option, tcp or rdma.  The rdma option will check to
ensure the proper configs have been enabled. The flag is then
passed to test.py, which will run the test over the specified
transport(s)

Signed-off-by: Allison Henderson <achender@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260518012443.2629206-12-achender@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>