Detect unused steps in isolation specs and do some cleanup

Detect unused steps in isolation specs and do some cleanup

This is useful for developers to find out if an isolation spec is
over-engineered or if it needs more work by warning at the end of a
test run if a step is not used, generating a failure with extra diffs.

While on it, clean up all the specs which include steps not used in any
permutations to simplify them.

This is a backpatch of 989d23b and 06fdc4e, as it is becoming useful to
make all the branches consistent for an upcoming patch that will improve
the output generated by isolationtester.

Author: Michael Paquier
Reviewed-by: Asim Praveen, Melanie Plageman
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20190819080820.GG18166@paquier.xyz
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/794820.1623872009@sss.pgh.pa.us
Backpatch-through: 9.6