BUG/MEDIUM: stconn: Wait iobuf is empty to shut SE down during a check send

BUG/MEDIUM: stconn: Wait iobuf is empty to shut SE down during a check send

When a send attempt is performed on the opposite side from sc_notify() and
all outgoing data are sent while a shut was scheduled, the SE is shut down
because we consider all data were sent and no more are expected. However,
here we must also be carefull to have sent all pending data in the
iobuf. Indeed, some spliced data may be blocked. In this case, if the SE is
shut down, these data may be lost.

This patch should fix the original bug reported in #2749. It must be
backported as far as 2.9.