Address a todo listed in

Address a todo listed in
https://mail-archives.apache.org/mod_mbox/httpd-dev/200205.mbox/%3CPine.LNX.4.33.0205292300380.27841-100000%40mako.covalent.net%3E
"init functions should return status code rather than ssl_die()"

For diagnostic purposes, ssl_die() is still there, but instead
of abruptly exit(1)ing, it will return APR_EGENERAL to the
ssl_init_* callers in ssl_engine_init.c, and these will propagate
the status back to ssl_init_Module.

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