bpf, sockmap: Fix af_unix iter deadlock

bpf, sockmap: Fix af_unix iter deadlock

bpf_iter_unix_seq_show() may deadlock when lock_sock_fast() takes the fast
path and the iter prog attempts to update a sockmap. Which ends up spinning
at sock_map_update_elem()'s bh_lock_sock():

WARNING: possible recursive locking detected
test_progs/1393 is trying to acquire lock:
ffff88811ec25f58 (slock-AF_UNIX){+...}-{3:3}, at: sock_map_update_elem+0xdb/0x1f0

but task is already holding lock:
ffff88811ec25f58 (slock-AF_UNIX){+...}-{3:3}, at: __lock_sock_fast+0x37/0xe0

other info that might help us debug this:
 Possible unsafe locking scenario:

       CPU0
       ----
  lock(slock-AF_UNIX);
  lock(slock-AF_UNIX);

 *** DEADLOCK ***

 May be due to missing lock nesting notation

4 locks held by test_progs/1393:
 #0: ffff88814b59c790 (&p->lock){+.+.}-{4:4}, at: bpf_seq_read+0x59/0x10d0
 #1: ffff88811ec25fd8 (sk_lock-AF_UNIX){+.+.}-{0:0}, at: bpf_seq_read+0x42c/0x10d0
 #2: ffff88811ec25f58 (slock-AF_UNIX){+...}-{3:3}, at: __lock_sock_fast+0x37/0xe0
 #3: ffffffff85a6a7c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: bpf_iter_run_prog+0x51d/0xb00

Call Trace:
 dump_stack_lvl+0x5d/0x80
 print_deadlock_bug.cold+0xc0/0xce
 __lock_acquire+0x130f/0x2590
 lock_acquire+0x14e/0x2b0
 _raw_spin_lock+0x30/0x40
 sock_map_update_elem+0xdb/0x1f0
 bpf_prog_2d0075e5d9b721cd_dump_unix+0x55/0x4f4
 bpf_iter_run_prog+0x5b9/0xb00
 bpf_iter_unix_seq_show+0x1f7/0x2e0
 bpf_seq_read+0x42c/0x10d0
 vfs_read+0x171/0xb20
 ksys_read+0xff/0x200
 do_syscall_64+0x6b/0x3a0
 entry_SYSCALL_64_after_hwframe+0x76/0x7e

Fixes: 2c860a43dd77 ("bpf: af_unix: Implement BPF iterator for UNIX domain socket.")
Suggested-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Suggested-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@linux.dev>
Signed-off-by: Michal Luczaj <mhal@rbox.co>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Jiayuan Chen <jiayuan.chen@linux.dev>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260414-unix-proto-update-null-ptr-deref-v4-2-2af6fe97918e@rbox.co