postgres_fdw: Extend postgres_fdw_get_connections to return user name.

postgres_fdw: Extend postgres_fdw_get_connections to return user name.

This commit adds a "user_name" output column to
the postgres_fdw_get_connections function, returning the name
of the local user mapped to the foreign server for each connection.
If a public mapping is used, it returns "public."

This helps identify postgres_fdw connections more easily,
such as determining which connections are invalid, closed,
or used within the current transaction.

No extension version bump is needed, as commit c297a47c5f
already handled it for v18~.

Author: Hayato Kuroda
Reviewed-by: Fujii Masao
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/b492a935-6c7e-8c08-e485-3c1d64d7d10f@oss.nttdata.com