Streamline visitors.iterate

Streamline visitors.iterate

This method might be used more significantly in the
ORM refactor, so further refine it.

* all get_children() methods now work entirely based on iterators.
  Basically only select() was sensitive to this anymore and it now
  chains the iterators together

* remove all kinds of flags like column_collections, schema_visitor
  that apparently aren't used anymore.

* remove the "depthfirst" visitors as these don't seem to be
  used either.

* make sure select() yields its columns first as these will be used
  to determine the current mapper.

Change-Id: I05273a2d5306a57c2d1b0979050748cf3ac964bf