[3.10] gh-94938: Fix errror detection of unexpected keyword arguments (GH-94999)...

[3.10] gh-94938: Fix errror detection of unexpected keyword arguments (GH-94999) (GH-95354)

When keyword argument name is an instance of a str subclass with
overloaded methods __eq__ and __hash__, the former code could not find
the name of an extraneous keyword argument to report an error, and
_PyArg_UnpackKeywords() returned success without setting the
corresponding cell in the linearized arguments array. But since the number
of expected initialized cells is determined as the total number of passed
arguments, this lead to reading NULL as a keyword parameter value, that
caused SystemError or crash or other undesired behavior..
(cherry picked from commit ebad53a4dc1bb591820724a22cef9b8459185b5f)

Co-authored-by: Serhiy Storchaka <storchaka@gmail.com>