core/socket: introduce intermediate SOCKET_START_OPEN state

core/socket: introduce intermediate SOCKET_START_OPEN state

Prior to this commit, if no Exec*= is defined for socket,
and the unit was in SOCKET_FAILED state, failure of socket_open_fds()
would induce state transition SOCKET_FAILED -> SOCKET_FAILED,
and OnFailure= deps get unexpectedly skipped. Let's introduce
an intermediate state, so that during unit start we enter
UNIT_ACTIVATING at least once.

Fixes #35635