meson: default enable compression and openssl

meson: default enable compression and openssl

The default for the compressions and openssl is based on the autotools
build ones. With the initial goal to make migration as easy as possible
- identical option names, help messages, defaults...

Although a bunch of these have changed already, plus we want builders to
get support for compressed/signed modules out of the box.

So let's flip the defaults - everyone is welcome to adjust those when
calling `meson setup -D foo=bar`.

Signed-off-by: Emil Velikov <emil.l.velikov@gmail.com>
Link: https://github.com/kmod-project/kmod/pull/225
Signed-off-by: Lucas De Marchi <lucas.de.marchi@gmail.com>