BUG/MEDIUM: stream: Fix the way early aborts on the client side are handled

BUG/MEDIUM: stream: Fix the way early aborts on the client side are handled

A regression was introduced with the commit c9aecc8ff ("BUG/MEDIUM: stream:
Don't request a server connection if a shutw was scheduled"). Among other this,
it breaks the CLI when the shutr on the client side is handled with the client
data. To depend on the flag CF_SHUTW_NOW to not establish the server connection
when an error on the client side is detected is the right way to fix the bug,
because this flag may be set without any error on the client side.

So instead, we abort the request where the error is handled and only when the
backend stream-interface is in the state SI_ST_INI. This way, there is no
ambiguity on the reason why the abort accurred. The stream-interface is also
switched to the state SI_ST_CLO.

This patch must be backported to 1.9. If the commit c9aecc8ff is backported to
previous versions, this one MUST also be backported. Otherwise, it MAY be
backported to older versions that 1.9 with caution.