MINOR: connection: create conn_get_best_mux_entry()

MINOR: connection: create conn_get_best_mux_entry()

We currently have conn_get_best_mux() to return the best mux for a
given protocol name, side and proxy mode. But we need the mux entry
as well in order to fix the bind_conf and servers at the end of the
config parsing. Let's split the function in two parts. It's worth
noting that the <conn> argument is never used anymore so this part
is eligible to some cleanup.