bcachefs: Fix btree updates when mixing cached and non cached iterators

bcachefs: Fix btree updates when mixing cached and non cached iterators

There was a bug where bch2_trans_update() would incorrectly delete a
pending update where the new update did not actually overwrite the
existing update, because we were incorrectly using BTREE_ITER_TYPE when
sorting pending btree updates.

This affects the pending patch to use cached iterators for inode
updates.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>