Replace last_added_nonpadding with last_had_circuits

Replace last_added_nonpadding with last_had_circuits

The point of the "idle timeout" for connections is to kill the
connection a while after it has no more circuits.  But using "last
added a non-padding cell" as a proxy for that is wrong, since if the
last circuit is closed from the other side of the connection, we
will not have sent anything on that connection since well before the
last circuit closed.

This is part of fixing 6799.

When applied to 0.2.5, it is also a fix for 12023.