net/mlx5: E-Switch, Tie rep load/unload to SD LAG state

net/mlx5: E-Switch, Tie rep load/unload to SD LAG state

On an SD device, vport representors are not functional until the SD
group is combined and shared FDB is active. Skip the initial load and
the reload paths in that window; reps are loaded as part of the SD LAG
activation flow once it becomes active.

In addition, explicitly unload representors when SD LAG is destroyed.

Signed-off-by: Shay Drory <shayd@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260612113904.537595-14-tariqt@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>