- Related to :ticket:`3060`, an adjustment has been made to the unit

- Related to :ticket:`3060`, an adjustment has been made to the unit
of work such that loading for related many-to-one objects is slightly
more aggressive, in the case of a graph of self-referential objects
that are to be deleted; the load of related objects is to help
determine the correct order for deletion if passive_deletes is
not set.
- revert the changes to test_delete_unloaded_m2o, these deletes do in fact
need to occur in the order of the two child objects first.