utils: Wrap socket() and pipe() to reduce syscalls
Some platforms provide an implementation of socket() and pipe2() that allow the
caller to specify that the resulting file descriptors should be non-blocking.
Using these allows us to potentially elide 3 calls into 1 by avoiding extraneous
calls to fcntl() to set the O_NONBLOCK flag afterwards.
In passing, change ast_alertpipe_init() to use pipe2() directly instead of the
wrapper if it is available.