cat-file: add mailmap subcommand to --batch-command

cat-file: add mailmap subcommand to --batch-command

git-cat-file(1)'s --batch-command works with the --use-mailmap option,
but this option needs to be set when the process is created. This means
we cannot change this option mid-operation.

At GitLab, Gitaly keeps interacting with a long-lived git-cat-file
process and it would be useful if --batch-command supported toggling
mailmap dynamically on an existing process.

Add a `mailmap` subcommand to --batch-command that takes a boolean
argument (usual ways you can specify a boolean value like 'yes', 'true',
etc., are supported). Mailmap data is loaded lazily and kept in memory,
while a helper centralizes the one-time load path used both at startup
and from the batch-command handler.

Extend tests to cover runtime toggling, startup option interactions
(`--mailmap`/`--no-mailmap`), accepted boolean forms, and invalid values.

Signed-off-by: Siddharth Asthana <siddharthasthana31@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>