cxl/mem: Convert devm_cxl_add_memdev() to scope-based-cleanup

cxl/mem: Convert devm_cxl_add_memdev() to scope-based-cleanup

In preparation for adding more setup steps, convert the current
implementation to scope-based cleanup.

The cxl_memdev_shutdown() is only required after cdev_device_add(). With
that moved to a helper function it precludes the need to add
scope-based-handler for that cleanup if devm_add_action_or_reset() fails.

Cc: Smita Koralahalli <Smita.KoralahalliChannabasappa@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Alison Schofield <alison.schofield@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ben Cheatham <benjamin.cheatham@amd.com>
Tested-by: Alejandro Lucero <alucerop@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251216005616.3090129-5-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>