mingw: special-case `open(symlink, O_CREAT | O_EXCL)`

mingw: special-case `open(symlink, O_CREAT | O_EXCL)`

The `_wopen()` function would gladly follow a symbolic link to a
non-existent file and create it when given above-mentioned flags.

Git expects the `open()` call to fail, though. So let's add yet another
work-around to pretend that Windows behaves according to POSIX, see:
https://pubs.opengroup.org/onlinepubs/007904875/functions/open.html#:~:text=If%20O_CREAT%20and%20O_EXCL%20are,set%2C%20the%20result%20is%20undefined.

This is required to let t4115.8(--reject removes .rej symlink if it
exists) pass on Windows when enabling the MSYS2 runtime's symbolic link
support.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Schindelin <johannes.schindelin@gmx.de>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>