test: Use meson add_test_setup() instead of environment variables

test: Use meson add_test_setup() instead of environment variables

We add a default test setup that excludes the integration-tests suite
so that the integration tests don't run by default. This allows us to
get rid of $SYSTEMD_INTEGRATION_TESTS. Then, we add two extra setups:
'integration' and 'shell'. The 'integration' setup does not exclude the
integration-tests suite, and so can be used to run the integration tests.
The 'shell' setup does the same, but additionally sets $TEST_SHELL=1,
allowing to get rid of $TEST_SHELL in the docs.