refs: implement releasing ref storages

refs: implement releasing ref storages

Ref storages are typically only initialized once for `the_repository`
and then never released. Until now we got away with that without causing
memory leaks because `the_repository` stays reachable, and because the
ref backend is reachable via `the_repository` its memory basically never
leaks.

This is about to change though because of the upcoming migration logic,
which will create a secondary ref storage. In that case, we will either
have to release the old or new ref storage to avoid leaks.

Implement a new `release` callback and expose it via a new
`ref_storage_release()` function.

Signed-off-by: Patrick Steinhardt <ps@pks.im>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>