MINOR: mux-h2: count within a connection, how many streams are receiving data

MINOR: mux-h2: count within a connection, how many streams are receiving data

A stream is receiving data from after the HEADERS frame missing END_STREAM,
to the end of the stream or HREM (the presence of END_STREAM). We're now
adding a flag to the stream that indicates this state, as well as a counter
in the connection of streams currently receiving data. The purpose will be
to gauge at any instant the number of streams that might have to share the
available bandwidth and buffers count in order not to allocate too much flow
control to any single stream. For now the counter is kept up to date, and is
reported in "show fd".