queue.h: wrap the system sys/queue.h

queue.h: wrap the system sys/queue.h

Instead of using local implementations for the queue.h macro,
wrap the system provided queue.h and then adding missing
features as needed.

The idea is that Suricata when integrated with another library
that includes sys/queue.h can look at the same source of truth
for these macros.

But not all operating systems include a queue.h with the same
features, and some don't include it at all, like Windows. So
on Windows this will be a full implementation of all the queue.h
features Suricata needs.