Handle BaseException in all _handle_dbapi_error

Handle BaseException in all _handle_dbapi_error

Tests illustrate that exceptions like GreenletExit and
even KeyboardInterrupt can corrupt the state of a DBAPI
connection like that of pymysql and mysqlclient.   Intercept
BaseException errors within the handle_error scheme and
invalidate just the connection alone in this case, but not
the whole pool.

The change is backwards-incompatible with a program that
currently intercepts ctrl-C within a database transaction
and wants to continue working on that transaction.  Ensure
the event hook can be used to reverse this behavior.

Change-Id: Ifaa013c13826d123eef34e32b7e79fff74f1b21b
Fixes: #3803