Use AsyncAdaptedQueuePool in aiosqlite

Use AsyncAdaptedQueuePool in aiosqlite

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### Description
Change default pool in `aiosqlite` from `NullPool` to `AsyncAdaptedQueuePool`.
This ensures consistency with pysqlite and least surprise when migrating from sync to async.
See discussion in https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/discussions/12285
Non regression tested by existing tests.

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Closes: #12291
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/12291
Pull-request-sha: 5a0872b8d431a6937eaf05fb132578aed5723b6a

Change-Id: I96b4d0b5154b34cd26d3ad89774229b0f5d8686f
(cherry picked from commit 11bac714a2e83f6f903b1faf36d744854635da66)