Handle the receipt of version negotiation packets

Handle the receipt of version negotiation packets

On the client side, when we get a version negotiation packet, we need to
interrogate the supported version list from the server, and either:
1) drop the connection if we don't see a version we can work with

2) select a supported version and try the negotiation again

Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Saša Nedvědický <sashan@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/25968)