MINOR: fd: add fd_want_recv_safe()

MINOR: fd: add fd_want_recv_safe()

This does the same as fd_want_recv() except that it does check for
fd_updt[] to be allocated, as this may be called during early listener
initialization. Previously we used to check fd_updt[] before calling
fd_want_recv() but this is not correct since it does not update the
FD flags. This method will be safer.