sd-netlink: make NLType internal

sd-netlink: make NLType internal

If we extend NLType to support arrays and further extended types, we
really want to avoid hard-coding the type-layout outside of
netlink-types.c. We already avoid accessing nl_type->type_system outside
of netlink-types.c, extend this to also avoid accessing any other fields.

Provide accessor functions for nl_type->type and nl_type->size and then
move NLType away from the type-system header.

With this in place, follow-up patches can safely turn "type_system" and
"type_system_union" into a real "union { }", and then add another type for
arrays.