Fix the IN-early-out optimization so that it works even for the corner case

Fix the IN-early-out optimization so that it works even for the corner case
where the NULL bypass fires before the affinity of the LHS operator has been
set.  Fix for the problem described in
[forum:/forumpost/6a3ec138e9|forum post 6a3ec138e9].

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