ctdb-daemon: Send STARTUP control after startup event

ctdb-daemon: Send STARTUP control after startup event

BUG: https://bugzilla.samba.org/show_bug.cgi?id=13154

STARTUP control is primarily used to synchronise tcp tickles from running
nodes to a node which has just started up.  Earlier STARTUP control was
sent (using BROADCAST_ALL) after setup event.  Once the other nodes in
the cluster connected to this node, the queued up messages would be sent
and the tcp tickles would get synchronised.

Recent fix to drop messages to disconnected or not-yet-connected nodes,
the STARTUP control was never sent to the remote nodes and the tcp
tickles did not get synchronised.

To fix this problem send the STARTUP control (using BROADCAST_CONNECTED)
after startup event.  By this time all the running nodes in the cluster
are connected.

Signed-off-by: Amitay Isaacs <amitay@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Martin Schwenke <martin@meltin.net>
Autobuild-User(master): Martin Schwenke <martins@samba.org>
Autobuild-Date(master): Thu Nov 30 15:29:48 CET 2017 on sn-devel-144

(cherry picked from commit d7a5cd589b7b16d625dbc64dac21a1384519e32b)