MINOR: connection: simplify subscription by adding a registration function

MINOR: connection: simplify subscription by adding a registration function

This new function wl_set_waitcb() prepopulates a wait_list with a tasklet
and a context and returns it so that it can be passed to ->subscribe() to
be added to a connection or conn_stream's wait_list. The caller doesn't
need to know all the insiders details anymore this way.