Fix UPSERT so that it checks the target-constraint first and fires the

Fix UPSERT so that it checks the target-constraint first and fires the
DO UPDATE if that constraint is violated regardless of whether or not
other constraints are in violation.  This aligns SQLite behavior with
what PostgreSQL does. Fix for ticket [908f001483982c43cdb476dfb590a1a].

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