use concat() directly for contains, startswith, endswith

use concat() directly for contains, startswith, endswith

Adjusted the SQL compilation for string containment functions
``.contains()``, ``.startswith()``, ``.endswith()`` to force the use of the
string concatenation operator, rather than relying upon the overload of the
addition operator, so that non-standard use of these operators with for
example bytestrings still produces string concatenation operators.

To accommodate this, needed to add a new _rconcat operator function,
which is private, as well as a fallback in concat_op() that works
similarly to Python builtin ops.

Fixes: #8253
Change-Id: I2b7f56492f765742d88cb2a7834ded6a2892bd7e